Gone with the wind: Tara, Scarlett and Rhett
The lessons-to-be-learnt-path for living lighter and still passionate.
Gone with the wind: watched, watched again and super watched again. Always and in any case. Every time it is on TV or in videotape or …on DVD.
Gone with the wind is one my cult movies.
Call it too long and involved. Call it feulleton, if you are elegant and bygone film-lovers. Call it however you like, but one thing is clear: Gone with the wind is a milestone.
Mami’s alluring gaze when lifting up her skirt showing that red taffeta petticoat.
Scarlett’s obstinate-little-girl gaze, a different way to say I get what I want no matter how and I am not scared about that.
Melania’s inverse gentleness, because she always knew she could hold Ashley by her side catting around but protecting who was undermining her heel: Scarlet.
Asheley’s sentimentality, meaning: If I’m pretending not to understand, who is going to tell anything?
Rhett’s irreverence, hiding an out-of-the-blue tender and romantic soul
And then costumes, balls excitement, making-crazy-even-Mr. Grey corsets…
There’s something for all tastes.
And still you will find some lessons.
Seriously.
Don’t you noticed them?
Here you are the three important ones for every day life with reference to:
- interpersonal relationships;
- couples;
- life, anyway.
One: frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.
Rhett Butler is the precursor of the I-do-not-care method.
I mean, how long have we to bear people’s gaze tyranny, before doing anything making us to be ourselves, without any damage to whoever?
Two: Tara!!
Everyone will be Tara’s someone. Everyone gets his own Tara, meaning home, to belong to, roots. Something you will always have a reason to fight for. A passion building you up and guiding you…e you find it out, after facing a long series of difficulties.
Third: After all, tomorrow is another day!
Procrastinators ode? Wrong. It is the intelligent and cleaver people one, because when your mind is filled with thoughts and things to do and something is out of control, there is just one thing you have to do, bending over on an healthy levity, without feeling guilty (you are officially relieved from them)…because you only live once and sometimes your heart needs to ease its beating.
You have to give yourself the chance of hoping. Again and again.
